“Knowing when you have found the right one for you”
“Being In LOVE”
When you know, that you know, that you know, you have found the right person, you can feel it in every inch of your body! Your spirit is free and your soul smiles. Whenever he/she comes around, you get all giddy, light-headed, nervous. The palms of your hands sweat for no particular reason. You cannot get the silly grin off of your face. And all you can do is smile. Just the mention of their name will make you blush, think secret thoughts shared just between the two of you. All of your friends know how he/she makes you react, so they tend to tease you about him/her all the time, just to see you behave the way you do. It’s sweet and enduring, but inspires them to keep looking or waiting if their special someone isn’t in their lives at the moment. You give them hope that he/she will come belong and sweep them off their feet. Or if all of you have found the right one, you all laugh about the silly little ways you all act at the very thought of your special someone. My friends and I tease each other all time. We have so much fun doing it too!
This can also be very tricky at first because the mind tends to manipulate us into over-thinking instead of just letting things run as they may. There will also be people in your life who are miserable in his/her own situation, who will try to put questioning thoughts into your mind. (Misery loves company and will try to move your ass right on in your house, if you not paying attention!) Yeah, we do have to be careful were our hearts are concerned but these type of feelings don’t just happen and especially with everybody. We still have to be wise and listen to the people who have our best interest at heart. Don’t just become blinded and allow heartache and pain the chance to still your joy. Trust me! They are waiting to do just that if we are not careful. All people can make you smile, even make you excited when you hear or see them but knowing for sure that you have found the right one for you, is totally, on another level. As the King of Pop, Michael Jackson said, “You give me butterflies”, becomes an understatement when you are with them, think of them or see them. There is nothing anyone can say to take your mind off them. Everything that you do entails thoughts of them. Nothing else matters in the world because love has finally found and conquered you. When the person you feel those ways about feel the same about you, start picking colors, selecting your closest friends and putting together your guest list, because it’s only a matter of time that the two of you embark into a life together, sealed in marriage.
You don’t have to take that leap but more often than not, many people want to express their love for each other through vows, in front of their family, friends and other loved ones. There are couples out there who have this kind of love but don’t feel the need to get married. True, marriage can change things but don’t look at what other people are doing or have done to decide what path is best for you. You and your mate should sit down and talk about it. If you cannot simply live another day a part from each other, then you will know what it takes to keep that a reality. I love the fact of being in love. It keeps me positive, motivated and at ease. Knowing that you have someone who loves you unconditionally, completely, who makes you feel like butter, melting each and every time you are together, is enchanting to say the least. No wonder fairytales always have happy endings. If Prince Charming or Prince Eric had those same effects on Cinderella or Ariel then I see why they broke rules to get to their men. Hell, I would do it too.
The only way I can describe being in love is like this:
A RAY OF SUNSHINE SHINING IN MY HEART
LAUGHING AT THE SMILE IN MY SPIRIT
MY SOUL CRIES OUT TEARS OF JOY
AND IT’S CALLED DESIRE….AND IT’S ALL BECAUSE OF YOU!!!!
LIKE WATER TO A DRY THROAT
FLOWING DOWN TO THE DEPTHS OF MY SOUL
CAUSING A MAGNETIC ENERGY TO ERUPT IN MY HEART
CREATING PURENESS IN MY MIND
FOR EVERY THOUGH IS OF YOU
YOU TOUCH ME IN PLACES IN NO ONE ELSE HAS
I CRAVE MORE AND MORE….
A BEAUTIFUL SUNSET
A RAINBOW AFTER A STORM
A PERFECT FLOWER, BLOOMING IN WINTER, NEVER DYING
A LYRIC, SPEAKING WORDS WITHOUT A SONG
THE MELODY INSPIRES ME TO LET LOVE TAKE ME AWAY
FREE AS A BIRD, LIGHT AS A FEATHER,
I AM SOARING IN PURE BLISS….
These are just a few ways I think being in love fells to me. If anyone wants to share what it means to them, feel free to post it in the comment box below. I want to know how you knew when you found the right one or when he/she found you. If you are not there yet, then express how you want to feel when it comes. Share how you think/believe true love should be or feel. There is no right or wrong answer. Allow your heart to open and speak freely, providing you with the right words. Love is beautiful, easy, exciting and the best gift we can receive and give in return. So, when you know, that you know, that you know, you have indeed found the right person for you. It is simple, kind, pure and none like any other. Don’t ignore love, push love away or be too afraid to give love a chance. “It is better to have known true love once in a lifetime, than to have never loved at all!”
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